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In my profession you have to go to continuing education classes to keep your license

I went to one yesterday.  It was about couples counseling.

I  have to admit I left a bit frustrated.  I didn’t make a scene  đź™‚

Even with all we know about people and about men and women and how people learn and develop there are still some people that think marriage problems can be solved with techniques, exercises, routines.  XYZ do this do that, tell your partner 5 things you love about her every day for 3 months, blah blah blah.

Come on.

If that were true, any kind of clown or even a robot could help married people fix their marriage.

What I do is show you some ways of thinking, handling yourself, dealing with marriage stress.  Then you take it from there.

There was an old piano in my grandmother’s farmhouse.  She used to play it a lot and sing.

One day  when I was around 5 years old I said how do you play that thing?

She showed me how to do Twinkle Twinkle Little Star.  I screwed up a couple times and she corrected me.

It kind of blew my mind because I knew that once I could play that I could probably play other things.

That’s kinda what we’re doing here.

I show you how to play something and then if you like you can do it that way or any way you want.

Play is the main thing.  Marriage is not hard work like they say, unless you make it hard work.  You can if you want to but why stress out?

Stay tuned and take care,

Dr. Max

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